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No Offence

The people who oil the wheels of society are not the people who never give offence, they are the people who never take any.

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1875

Queen Victoria 1837-1901

By Pierre-Auguste Renoir (1841-1919), Wikimedia Commons. Public domain.

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No Offence

By Pierre-Auguste Renoir (1841-1919), Wikimedia Commons. Public domain. Source
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‘Confidences,’ by Pierre-Auguste Renoir (1841-1919), painted in 1878.

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Introduction

There are those, said American essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson, who feel they can never really open up, even among their friends, for fear of offending someone. Better, he advised, to choose more robust and sympathetic listeners for your little circle. The hero of an open and accepting society is not the man who never gives offence; it is the man who never takes any.

A FEW times in my life it has happened to me to meet persons of so good a nature and so good breeding, that every topic was open and discussed without possibility of offence, — persons who could not be shocked. One of my friends said in speaking of certain associates, “There is not one of them but I can offend at any moment.” But to the company I am now considering, were no terrors, no vulgarity. All topics were broached, — life, love, marriage, sex, hatred, suicide, magic, theism, art, poetry, religion, myself, thyself, all selves, and whatever else, with a security and vivacity which belonged to the nobility of the parties and to their brave truth. The life of these persons was conducted in the same calm and affirmative manner as their discourse.

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Précis

In ‘Social Aims,’ American essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson spoke up in defence of freedom of association. He recalled a friend saying that he went in constant fear of offending his acquaintances, whereas Emerson enjoyed the security of knowing that his circle, whatever the subject of conversation, had shown that they could not be offended. (54 / 60 words)

In ‘Social Aims,’ American essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson spoke up in defence of freedom of association. He recalled a friend saying that he went in constant fear of offending his acquaintances, whereas Emerson enjoyed the security of knowing that his circle, whatever the subject of conversation, had shown that they could not be offended.

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Some people cannot be offended. Emerson met them only rarely. He admired them.

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