Are Women more faithful than Men?

“Oh!” cried Anne eagerly, “I hope I do justice to all that is felt by you, and by those who resemble you. God forbid that I should undervalue the warm and faithful feelings of any of my fellow-creatures! I should deserve utter contempt if I dared to suppose that true attachment and constancy were known only by woman. No, I believe you capable of everything great and good in your married lives. I believe you equal to every important exertion, and to every domestic forbearance, so long as — if I may be allowed the expression — so long as you have an object. I mean while the woman you love lives, and lives for you. All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one; you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone.”

From ‘Persuasion’ (1817), by Jane Austen.
Précis
Anne acknowledges the sincerity of Harville’s feelings, but intimates that he has not quite understood her point. She has been speaking not of faithfulness in a current relationship, but of faithfulness after a relationship has been ended. Men seem to be able to move on from disappointment more easily than women, something for which Anne thinks men should be grateful.
Questions for Critics

1. What is the author aiming to achieve in writing this?

2. Note any words, devices or turns of phrase that strike you. How do they help the author communicate her ideas more effectively?

3. What impression does this passage make on you? How might you put that impression into words?

Based on The English Critic (1939) by NL Clay, drawing on The New Criticism: A Lecture Delivered at Columbia University, March 9, 1910, by J. E. Spingarn, Professor of Comparative Literature in Columbia University, USA.

Sevens

Suggest answers to this question. See if you can limit one answer to exactly seven words.

In what way does a woman’s love differ from a man’s, according to Anne?

Suggestion

A woman’s love continues even after loss.

Jigsaws

Express the ideas below in a single sentence, using different words as much as possible. Do not be satisfied with the first answer you think of; think of several, and choose the best.

Sometimes love isn’t returned. Men get over that easily. Women don’t.

See if you can include one or more of these words in your answer.

IDifficult. IIIf. IIIReject.

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