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Sweet Counsel

Advice is a dangerous gift, and for centuries our greatest writers have wondered how to dispense it safely.

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1750

King George II 1727-1760

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By John Tenniel (1820-1914), via the British Library and Wikimedia Commons. Licence: Public domain.

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Sweet Counsel

By John Tenniel (1820-1914), via the British Library and Wikimedia Commons. Licence: Public domain. Source
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Advice from a Caterpillar is Chapter Five in Lewis Carroll’s Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland (1865). John Tenniel provided illustrations, this one showing the Caterpillar with his hookah, telling Alice how to achieve her normal height again. “‘Well, I should like to be a little larger, sir, if you wouldn’t mind,’ said Alice: ‘Three inches is such a wretched height to be.’ ‘It is a very good height indeed!’ said the Caterpillar angrily, rearing itself upright as it spoke (it was exactly three inches high).”

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Introduction

‘It is always a silly thing to give advice,’ says Erskine in Oscar Wilde’s The Portrait of Mr W. H., ‘but to give good advice is absolutely fatal.’ Back in 1750 the Spectator, founded by Joseph Addison (1672-1719) and Sir Richard Steele (1672-1729), suggested a way to sugar the pill.

THERE is nothing which we receive with so much reluctance as advice. We look upon the man who gives it us as offering an affront to our understanding, and treating us like children or idiots. We consider the instruction as an implicit censure, and the zeal which any one shews for our good on such an occasion as a piece of presumption or impertinence. The truth of it is, the person who pretends to advise, does, in that particular, exercise a superiority over us, and can have no other reason for it, but that in comparing us with himself, he thinks us defective either in our conduct or our understanding.

For these reasons, there is nothing so difficult as the art of making advice agreeable; and indeed all the writers, both ancient and modern, have distinguished themselves among one another, according to the perfection at which they have arrived in this art.

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Précis

In the ‘Spectator’ for February 1750, there was an article about giving advice. The author began by saying that nobody likes getting advice because it makes him seem inferior to his counsellor, either in conduct or intelligence, and that what marks out our best authors is their ability to dispense advice without offence. (53 / 60 words)

In the ‘Spectator’ for February 1750, there was an article about giving advice. The author began by saying that nobody likes getting advice because it makes him seem inferior to his counsellor, either in conduct or intelligence, and that what marks out our best authors is their ability to dispense advice without offence.

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Variations: 1.increase the length of this precis to exactly 60 words. 2.reduce the length of this precis to exactly 50 words. 3.introduce one of the following words into the precis: despite, if, just, not, otherwise, ought, until, whether.

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Sevens Based on this passage

Suggest answers to this question. See if you can limit one answer to exactly seven words.

What in the author’s opinion is the least welcome of all gifts?

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Variations: 1.expand your answer to exactly fourteen words. 2.expand your answer further, to exactly twenty-one words. 3.include one of the following words in your answer: if, but, despite, because, (al)though, unless.

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Express the ideas below in a single sentence, using different words as much as possible. Do not be satisfied with the first answer you think of; think of several, and choose the best.

We like to get gifts. OWe don’t like to get advice.

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